(Written for and published on Jasmin.com)
With all the different sex toys available for women men might start to get jealous, but there are actually plenty available for men too. They come in three main categories: sex simulators, prostate stimulators, and erection enhancers. You’ve probably seen a few of these before but maybe never thought to try them. There’s no reason why masturbation shouldn’t be just as good as sex, or even better!
These are the lifelike, fleshy toys shaped like vaginas, anuses and mouths. They can be made of rubber, soft plastic or a material called “CyberSkin” that feels incredibly realistic. The insides often have pleasure-enhancing ribbing or nubs, and many of them vibrate. Using lube with these kinds of toys makes the feeling even more real, especially when the lube has a warming sensation.
Most of these types of toys are just a long tube, but some are shaped like a woman’s spread legs, with butt cheeks and everything made out of the same soft, fleshy material. There are even some toys that do the stroking for you, essentially giving you a hands-free blowjob!
The next most popular type of sex toy for men stimulates the prostate to create incredibly intense orgasms. A lot of men feel weird about the idea of putting anything in their anus, but guys who have had it done before can tell you how much it can enhance your pleasure. Prostate massagers come in lots of different shapes and sizes, and can be great combined with the simulators mentioned before.
There are even anal “starter kits” for guys who have never tried anything like this before. It’s important to start slow so that you don’t hurt yourself, but as you go along you’ll get better and better at pleasuring yourself in new and thrilling ways. You can even incorporate a massager into sex with a partner, the same way you might use a vibrator or a dildo!
These are usually referred to as “cock rings” and their main function is to keep your erection rock hard by trapping blood in it. If you’ve never tried it, it’s not as uncomfortable as it might sound. In fact it makes your erection larger and fuller than it would be on its own, and also makes it last longer. They can be used to enhance your erection when you’re alone or with a partner.
Like the simulators and massagers, many of these rings also vibrate and come in all sorts of pleasure designs. Some are even shaped perfectly to stimulate your partner’s clitoris as you thrust. There are plenty of sizes, and even some stretchy ones that fit all sizes. These too can be combined with the other toys to have your eyes rolling back in your head with every orgasm.
All of these toys can be found at almost any adult toy store, and many of those stores allow you to order online in case you’re shy about browsing in person. But remember that no one is or should be judging you for stepping up your sex game, whether it’s for yourself or with a partner. If they don’t want to have better orgasms, that’s their own problem.
For more tips on what sex toys are best and where to find them, contact me here on my website, or at DrYvonka@DrYvonka.com!