(Note: This article will discuss heterosexual intercourse, but many can apply to same sex couples as well!)
Chances are that if you’ve ever browsed a bookstore, you’ve heard of Kama Sutra.
“Oh that sex position book?”
Yes that one. It also comes in calendar form!
Roughly translated, “kama sutra” means “manual of sexual desire” and it comes to us from ancient India. Desire is an important part of Indian (Hindu) culture, and they have the statues to prove it. The book is more than a list of fun sex positions, however. The Kama Sutra contains tons of advice about love, family and leading a pleasurable lifestyle.
Fun Sex Positions
These are what most people are interested in, however. And there are PLENTY.
Trying new sex positions is a great way to switch things up in the bedroom. But if you’ve browsed the book, or other outlets recommending “ways to spice things up” your first thought might be something like:
“I am NOT that flexible!”
“How am I gonna balance a beach ball on a rocking chair!?”
Well not to fear.
Below I’ve put together a brief list of simple positions you can try, without tearing any muscles.
Check it out:
- This is a standing position, and a great way to kick things off
- After undressing, the man stands behind the woman, pressed close to her back
- She can reach behind her to play with his penis, while he reaches around her to stimulate her clitoris and nipples
- When everyone is good and aroused, he can softly enter her from behind
- (This may require crouching or a stool, if there is a major height difference!)
- She lies on her belly, resting on her forearms
- She lifts one leg up beside her, and leaves the other extended
- He moves between her legs, resting his hands on the bed near her waist
- He enters from behind, and the passion begins
The Magic Mountain
- This one is fun and comfy because it involves PILLOWS
- Create a stack of pillows (3-4) for her to rest her chest/arms on
- She presses her thighs together
- He kneels on the outside of her legs from behind
- As he enters her from behind he can rest gently on her back, and kiss her shoulders/ears/neck
- Now we remove the pillows
- She lays flat on her stomach, resting on her arms or a pillow
- She raises one knee up to the side (resting flat on the bed), and creates room for him to enter
- He straddles her un-raised leg and can enter her this way
- He can rub/massage/kiss her back as he thrusts
The Splitting Bamboo
- For this one, she rolls over on her back
- He straddles one leg, and she raises the other to his shoulder
- This creates a “scissoring” effect for maximum penetration
- He can stimulate her nipples from this position, as well
- A wonderful “cool-down” position
- He lays on his side
- She lays both legs over his hips, perpendicularly
- He can thrust gently from this position, while both lay back comfortably
- Great for cuddling/after-glow
- Laying on her side, she pulls her knees up to her chest
- He spoons her from behind, and enters that way
- His legs can be straight, or for extra cute points, they can curl up with her legs
So there you have it!
7 super easy positions that you can try TONIGHT! If nothing else it’ll give you an excuse to break the dry spell. And there’s more where that came from!
(For similar ideas and demonstrations, check out this YouTube video. And try not to be too distracted by the lingerie.)
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